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The unwritten rules,
written down.

The private-club rules nobody tells you, in one 5-minute letter every Wednesday.

No. 1 What to tip a caddie, and when cash beats Venmo.

No. 2 How to be the guest who gets invited back.

No. 3 Dress-code calls for the clubs that don't post them.

Application for Correspondence

Proposed by @BowTied_Golfer

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One letter a week on the unwritten rules. Read by 6,000 golfers.

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